The Forgiveness of Our Humanity

 The Forgiveness of Our Humanity

Forgiveness. Huge. Where it begins? Within.

I was chatting with a friend of mine who was held hostage for the better part of her day at Best Buy and amid her frustration she cried out, “I wish life was simpler!” “So do I,” I empathized as my thoughts drifted to what simpler times looked like. Watching clouds float by and picnic tables under shady trees came into my mind’s view. There were copious amounts of unplugged moments; our humanity was embraced, not captured. It was worn on our sleeves. Our shares and likes were experienced in real time, as were mistakes and disagreements. When a line was crossed apologies were expected. Forgiveness was deemed a strength that nursed character and was the catalyst that inspired one to breathe deep into the mystery of their unique human experience . . .

When I think of simpler times it feels to me that forgiveness was an open and obvious component of human interactions. The expectations that revolved around the weight of humanity were obvious. The luxury of time in bygone eras allowed for this, as did an almost preternatural ability to accept one’s faults and mistakes as being part of the human experience. There were no digital games pressing for unachievable (and now achievable) scores of perfection or no competing against computers, robots, or machines. There were only solid human competitions that displayed flaws of personhood and belief. And yes the human vs. human competitions still exist today, but mostly with the help of some form of a computerized screen that dares to egg them on with statistics of how one can “do better”, strive for a greater gain (of purse and ego), and continuously move forth into the abyss of never-ending technology. All of this at a record pace that swiftly moves our planetary and human time clock to fit into the techno time race. With all these attributes of ‘perfection’ where does this leave forgiveness, the most powerful of all human acts? Is true forgiveness, being lost in a culture that seemingly holds less and less value in keeping it human?

As we strive for the dictates of perfection, to be mindful, to stay in shape, meditate, inhale and exhale, say our affirmations, and to communicate in kindness, love and spirit can we begin to forgive ourselves and others for stepping out of the zone and not being, or even wanting to be, some or all the above? For, isn’t it in the act of forgiving that throughout the ages has brought us back to our humanity? In our forgiving don’t we dance with the wise part of ourselves that revels in the mystery that connects us all.

So take that moment to stop, breathe, and forgive. Most importantly practice forgiving yourself. Forgive yourself for your humanity, and forgive others for theirs. Forgiveness is the greatest gift you can give to yourself. True forgiveness (I feel) trumps karma (but that’s another blog). Not only does forgiveness herald us back unto our wise and true selves, but let’s just say it is a universal shout out to our big beautiful, priceless humanity.

Stay true,

Maggygrace